Monster dildos are some of the most versatile sex toys. Unlike vibrators, they do not move alone. In addition, their biggest benefit is that they come in many different forms, which can bring a new dimension to your sex life.
Annabelle Knight, a sex and relationship expert, explains how to use a monster dildo and how to make the most of it.
A monster dildo does only what you ask it to do, so choosing the right one for you is essential. For example, if you buy one that is too big or in the wrong shape, you won’t have fun with it. If you’re not sure what to choose, think about the other things you used for penetration (finger, penis, vibrator, etc.) and choose the monster dildo you know would suit you. This is especially important in the beginning; after that, you can experiment with more models.
ALWAYS USE LUBRICANT
You will need lubricant for any sex toy, and this is especially true for monster dildos. Water based lubricants are good in almost any situation. The silicone-based ones last longer and are best suited for anal penetration, because the anus does not lubricate like the vagina. However, if your monster dildo is made of silicone, a silicone-based lubricant can damage it – so it’s best to choose a water-based one.
VAGINAL monster dildo VS ANAL monster dildo
Most monster dildos can be used for vaginal penetration, but only a few are safe for anal penetration. The anal ones should have a larger base, to prevent the monster dildo from slipping into the rectum.
You should not use the same monster dildo in the vagina and anus unless you use condoms that you change between them or clean the monster dildo very well.
HOW TO USE A monster dildo
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Even if you plan to use it with a partner, it’s best to try it alone the first time.
Make sure you are relaxed. It is important to be sufficiently excited, otherwise penetration can be difficult and less pleasant.
Do not rush. Start gently, first outside the vagina, then slowly insert it. Experiment with depth and angles to find out what you like best.
Once you feel comfortable using the monster dildo, you can experience different rhythms and speeds. Notice the difference between a slow and steady movement and a fast and irregular movement to figure out what works for you.
Attention: Enema can give erotic sensations, but do not do it too often because it can disrupt your ability to eliminate feces naturally. The colon is an organ that absorbs substances very easily, so pay close attention to what liquids you use for enema. Never put alcohol in the anus because it can cause death!
Proper penetration. Whether you use your finger, a monster dildo or a penis, do it slowly at first. Relax and focus on the signals your body gives you. Let your sphincter set the pace.
How to use an Anal Plug ?
During orgasm, the anus contracts naturally. Having an anal plug or butt-plug inserted will intensify your sensations. Butt plugs are available in different sizes. They usually have a blister at one end to make sure it doesn’t slip accidentally into the rectum. You can buy a multitude of sizes to experiment.
Apply lubricant to your favorite butt plug. At this step, suppose you are relaxed and excited after you have followed the steps above, and your anus is also relaxed and lubricated. If not, then first apply lubricant using your finger.
Insert the butt plug at the appropriate angle as in the figure below. The rectum is along the spine. If you look at the picture you will realize that the most suitable positions are doggy-style with the back arched, or stand on the back.
The secret is to push!
To feel the greatest pleasure from anal stimulation is to push out the toy you are introducing. By pushing, the sphincter relaxes and opens, so the object can easily enter and exit.
Push yourself using your abdominal muscles, as if pushing your feces out. You must feel relaxed and confident in yourself, this may take some time but after you reach the sensations you will never look back!
You may feel strange at first, but if you have completely cleansed yourself, nothing unexpected will happen. The sensation of release when you push will increase your pleasure 10 times during anal sex or masturbation.
Combined anal stimulation
Now stimulate your clitoris and push the anal butt plug for a unique sensation. Butt plugs have an edge that allows them to remain inserted into the anus.